How to Wear Pearls in Any Age and Look Terrific


A model wearing bold oversized pearl necklace

If I would get a single pearl each time I hear a misconception about pearls, I'd already have a full-sized Opera-length strand (Opera pearl strand is 28-36 inches). "Pearls age you." "It's for old ladies." "Young women should go for smaller pearls, while older women can get bigger size pearls." "You don't wear pearls in the daytime." There is no other stone that has so much controversy around it as a pearl, and, to be honest, all these allegations have a grain of truth: pearl jewelry really can look outdated and, of course, if you wear something old-fashioned, that would age you. But the problem is not in the pearls themselves; the problem is in bad styling. However, after you befriend this troublesome jewel, it will always be on your side, making you instantly look polished and super cool! It's well worth trying, right?

A black woman wearing seed pearl earrings

Here are some recommendations on how to rock pearls to look like a million bucks.

Opt for baroque pearls

First of all, in the 2020s, we don't assume anymore that good pearls must be spherical, white, and pea-sized. We've learned that every size and shade is beautiful, and we don't shame irregular-shaped gems as defective ones, as it used to be in the past. Of course, classic pearls will always be valued and appreciated, but let's be honest: perfect spherical beads look their best on perfect, symmetrical faces. Remember iconic Grace Kelly looks with a pearl choker strand: her face was so balanced that it doesn't come as a surprise that pearls were her best friends.

Grace Kelly in Rear Window film

Fortunately for everyone else, a new character came on the scene: Baroque pearls. The distinctive quality of these jewels is their irregular shape; they might be elongated, curvy, lumpy, or just slightly differ from a sphere. These "flaws" make each gem unique, and that's why if you order baroque pearls online, your order might look different than the picture, and that's completely ok.

Modern open necklace with baroque pearls

Wear baroque pearls in a necklace, bracelet, or a pair of earrings - they will look great everywhere and add some edginess to the outfit.

Wear your pearls casually

Layered pearl necklaces worn with a sweatshirt

The time when little black dress or Chanel-inspired tweed jacket considered the most complementary garments for pearls has long gone. Now we can pair pearls with literally everything, including the most utilitarian pieces. A basic sweatshirt and a couple of pearl strands is a new classic, as well as pearls worn with a t-shirt (solid or even graphic) or casual knitwear like a cardigan.

Master the art of layering

Layered necklaces of cream, peach and gray pearls with pendants

When it comes to pearls, don't be shy and sprinkle your gems generously. Add as many layers as you dare, mix pearls of different sizes, and stir baroque pearls into classic ones. As Coco Chanel once said: "A woman needs ropes and ropes of pearls".

Put pearls and chains together

Layered chains and pearl necklace

Chains have a superpower to make snobbish gems down to earth, and their friendship is strong and beautiful. You can choose a necklace that already combines pearls and metal or just layer any chains and pearl jewelry from your jewel box.

Replace everything you can with pearls

A pearl strand worn as a belt

Wear a knotted rope of pearls instead of a tie. Put it on your waist instead of a belt. Place it on your bag to add some bling. Tie together a pearl strand and a silk scarf and get a new necklace. Allow yourself to be bold and creative!

Play with oversized pearls

A model wearing oversized pearl earrings and necklace

To get an exaggerated, theatrical effect, go for really big stones. Or for tiny ones, if your goal is to get an innocent, "girly", babydoll look.

Make it fun

A woman wearing a jacket decorated with pins and pearls

Some of the most creative fashionistas are brave enough to add funky charms or seashells to their heritage necklaces, or to string the pearls on a leather rope.

Pearls are not just for jewelry

A stylish woman wearing pearl bralette

Of course, the first things we imagine when thinking about pearls are classic necklaces, button earrings, and bracelets. Sometimes rings. However, pearls can do much more than that. They can be a part of your outfit when sewn down on your clothes, or used instead of spaghetti straps on your dress. Your bag can have a pearly strap or be made completely of faux pearls. The headband might be dripping with pearls. Let's look through a broader lens: we live in a time when it's easy to find pearly sunglasses chains or even a dog leash in stores. Don't be afraid to experiment and add a touch of extravaganza to your everyday life!

How to not wear pearls

Last of all, a recommendation on how to not wear pearls. Try not to wear them as one set, like earrings and rings, because everything matchy-matchy almost always looks outdated. For the same reason, be careful when pairing pearls with retro-inspired and overly feminine outfits. In the 2020s, the formula for success is to forget all the old rules and have the freedom to mix elegant pearls with casual, edgy, or even sporty looks, fuse them with metal chains and charms, and double, triple, and 10 times multiply the layers.

A woman wearing a cape dripping with pearls

Ready to elevate your style with pearls? Don't forget to check out our guide on how image consultants can help you perfect your personal style, including incorporating timeless pieces like pearls into your wardrobe.